To Open a New Chapter, First, You Must Close the Old One…
The Art of Closing Cycles
Wow, what a week! The full moon eclipse in Taurus packed some serious power. A full moon on its own signifies the culmination of a cycle—a moment of manifestation or harvest stemming from the intentions set during the new moon in the same sign six months earlier. After a full moon, the cosmos often brings us gifts or “cosmic spankings” (as one of my mentors would say), depending on the personal work we've done.
But this particular full moon in Taurus, also an eclipse, didn’t just wrap up a six-month cycle—it marked the official conclusion of the eclipses in the Taurus-Scorpio nodal axis, a pattern we won’t see again for 19 years. This means we’re also closing a two-year chapter of our lives. From here on, the gifts—or the spankings—will come.
What determines which you’ll receive?
It all depends on whether you’ve stepped up as the heroine of your own life. Remember the Hero’s Journey I introduced in the last article? Let’s pick up where we left off and dive deeper into the stages.
The Hero’s Journey (Continued)
In last week’s article, we explored the first three stages: living in an ordinary world, being shaken by a call to adventure, and, perhaps, resisting that call. We all start out grounded in familiar routines, adapting to our environment. Then, life throws us a curveball—a wake-up call—pulling us out of our comfort zone. Whether we accept or reject that call is up to us.
4. Meeting the Mentor
I like to think of life as something that always loves and supports us. Every time I’ve faced events that unsettled me, brought me pain, or pushed me out of my “safe zone,” help has shown up—almost like magic.
When we choose to heed the call instead of resisting it, life presents us with mentors. These figures guide us, prepare us for the journey ahead, and offer tools or insights to help us move forward. However, this assistance doesn’t come freely; it must be earned. The hero must demonstrate commitment to the journey.
Why mentors are essential:
A mentor provides clarity when we’ve defined our goal. They serve as a beacon, showing us glimpses of who we might become if we stay the course. But their role isn’t permanent. While they accompany us for a time, it’s ultimately the hero who must cross the threshold on their own, transcending even the mentor's guidance.
What happens without a mentor:
Without a clear goal, the journey feels aimless, and finding a mentor becomes difficult. This can lead to feeling lost, unsupported, or distrustful of those offering help—a path that risks burnout, much like the story of Icarus.
In my own journey, mentors appeared when I needed them most. One of the most pivotal was Enric Corbera. I stumbled upon his videos around 2011. At first, I barely understood his teachings, but something inside me knew his words were vital. Over the years, I studied his work independently until I was able to learn from him directly. His guidance transformed my life, helping me heal my perception and grow in countless ways. Even now, I know my path is far from over. But when I look back, I’m amazed at how far I’ve come.
5. Crossing the Threshold
Whenever we aim for change, there’s always a threshold to cross—a barrier guarded by challenges that test our resolve. These "gatekeepers" symbolize our inner fears and doubts, whispering, “Why change? You’re fine as you are.”
But here’s the thing: they don’t show up to stop us but to test our determination. How deeply do you want this change? Are you fully committed to creating a better life? Facing these trials is where the hero proves their worth to step into the “special world.”
Beware the siren songs:
These guardians often appear disguised as distractions, doubts, or even well-meaning people who unintentionally hold us back. You might hear things like:
“Why travel? You’re fine here.”
“Why quit that stable job?”
“Don’t rock the boat; you’ll embarrass yourself.”
“After all I’ve done for you, this is how you repay me?”
Sound familiar?
When I decided to travel the world, I faced my own “siren songs.” Some people disapproved of my choice. One person even said, “Why bother with a farewell party? You’ll be back in a few months anyway.” That remark stuck with me—not as a source of anger, but as fuel to prove to myself that I could embark on a transformative journey.
Hold the Emotion
These moments of discomfort are pivotal. Relationships and structures that once felt secure may need to evolve—or even end—so we can move forward. However, these “guardians” aren’t true enemies; they often become unexpected allies in our process of growth. It all comes down to how we perceive them.
Time to Move Forward
If life is urging you to make a change—or forcing you into one—ask yourself: What cycle needs to close? Over the next few weeks, the cosmic energy is perfect for stepping forward, facing those inner thresholds, and crossing them with courage.
The eclipse last weekend may have already shown you what needs to shift. Use that momentum as a springboard to transform your reality.
Next week, we’ll continue exploring the Hero’s Journey. Stay tuned as we uncover the next steps in your heroic adventure.